Monday, March 29, 2021

We Are So Lucky




Never thought I’d be saying that I feel lucky right now.  We are in the hospital for the next 5 months battling Leukemia and I'm still grieving over my sister's passing...yet I feel lucky. 


Lucky that it was caught very early


Lucky that the treatment is working


Lucky that there IS a treatment. If we were living in a different era, our story would be much much worse


Lucky that he is resilient  


Lucky he is not the kid in the next room who’s life hangs in the balance


Lucky we have an enormous village of family and friends who have flocked to our side with prayers, gifts, money, food, emotional support… all of which makes this so much easier


Lucky to be reminded of how much we are loved (sometimes I forget because my insecurities are like nasty little demons whispering mean things in my ears)


Lucky to have so much concentrated one-on-one time with both of our boys


Lucky to have been blessed with amazing health insurance…No financial burdens here 


Lucky that Andrew’s line of work is so flexible


Lucky that my employer has been so generous and understanding


Lucky we have amazing In-Laws who live right next door and are a huge help to all the shuffling around from home to hospital


Lucky Quincy is so young and is able to just ride this wave with such grace


Lucky Reece is too young to really understand what is going on


Lucky that I have my sister angel, Marcy, who immediately calms me down when I spin out of control


Lucky that we checked into the hospital for our 6 month stay in March, just in the nick of time to not miss the major holidays


Lucky that when this is all over, Quincy will have a lifetime to proudly tell his tale of Leukemia and how he fought it off with more than just Luck...he fought it off with strength, courage and the belief that he could do it.


P.S.

(Also lucky that he is into meditating with healing crystals! Whole body wellness)







 

7 comments:

Laurel Janssen Byrne said...

So positive! Love you guys so much. xoxo

Theresa Bergdahl (Finamore) said...

Love you too Laurel!!!

Brandy said...

Sending you the biggest heart hugs.... Such a special family you have... and your sister angel is so watching over you.... She is whispering in your ear... ‘you got this, you are not alone.’

Thank you of being such a beautiful example of grace and strength...
❌⭕️🙏🏻❌⭕️

Theresa Bergdahl (Finamore) said...

Awe Brandy! Thank you. I definitely do. It feel alone, that’s for sure. Everyone has been so supportive!

Misty said...

I love that you are counting your blessings even in hell! Your positivity and light will weather the storm and your Q and Reece are LUCKY to have YOU!!!
I LOVE YOU more than I can ever possibly express in words. I’m LUCKY to have had you as my best friend for almost 30 Years now! You are amazing and beautiful and strong and a warrior! You will fight this battle with all the love and grace and support and healing wishes from
Your angel in heaven and all your angels here on earth.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Theresa Bergdahl (Finamore) said...

Misty.... thank you!! My angel in earth, my bestie, my soul sister... can’t ever do this without you!

Christy said...

Well I wrote this long message and of course Silas deleted the whole thing before I could send it lol…
But anyway… you are such an incredible wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, etc. etc. I may have only had a short while to be in your presence but you have always stuck in my heart. I am so grateful to know you and have had the blessing of getting to see your boys running crazy on the playground, getting to know little Q’s wildly funny and beautiful fighting spirit, so much like his mama. When I heard the news of Q’s diagnosis it broke my heart into a million pieces. When Rebekah was 4 we went thru a similar experience, however in the end we discovered she had a rare virus that would eventually pass on its own. While your story is different, God knew you would be standing right where you are long before you got here. He has prepared you for this and He will see you and Quincy through this. You are so right, one day he will be able to tell this incredible story of beating cancer and live a beautiful life full of happiness and health. I will continue to pray for you and your family, God has always had you on my heart for what I believe is a reason. I am here for you in whatever way I can be and I can’t wait for Q to be finished with his treatments and we can celebrate his victory over this!!! Love you girl! You have always been such a calming and beautiful presence to those around you, handling challenges with an open mind and grace, love, and compassion. You are a diamond. Don’t ever forget it or let those little demon voices whisper those insecurities into your mind and heart. ❤️ Stay strong mama. You got this!

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